BAPAA – The British Au Pair Agencies Association

The Bunbury Care Agency has been a member of the British Au Pair Agencies Association (BAPAA) since 2009 and abides by their recommended code of conduct in the recruitment of Au Pairs. BAPAA is the only official trade association for Au Pair Agencies, is recognised by the Home Office and abides by all current UK and EU regulations.
BAPAA is the only recognised Trade Association for the Au Pair industry in Britain. This organisation was formed on a non-commercial basis with the purpose of setting standards for the Au Pair industry and protecting the Au Pair experience as a rewarding cultural exchange programme.
Members must meet firm business and ethical standards and, in turn, agree to abide by BAPAA’s code of conduct, which signifies competence, fair dealing and high integrity.
BAPAA Benifits
- All BAPAA members work closely with reputable partner agencies all over Europe to make sure an Au Pair is both vetted and prepared in their own country prior to departure to the UK.
- A BAPAA agency assists with the careful matching of an Au Pair to vetted families in Britain. BAPAA’s Agency Code of Conduct means that agencies have to supply your family with sufficient personal information about the applicant, including references, a medical report and a police report.
- All agencies work to the highest standards in the industry and their experience and professionalism means they can minimise the risk of disappointment and help resolve any issues that may arise.
- BAPAA is the only official Trade Association for Au Pair agencies, is recognised by the Home Office and abides by all current UK and EU regulations.
- We have access to the latest guidelines on immigration, ensuring your Au Pair placement is legal.
Once the Au Pair is placed with their Host Family in the UK, the Bunbury Agency provides the following benefits through it’s BAPAA membership:
- Free BAPAA handbook.
- Welcome Pack continaing General Guidelines and information for the Host Family and Au Pair.
- 24 hour emergency helpline.
- Use of the exclusive BAPAA “find a friend” website. A safe way for Au Pairs to met each other. www.aupairfriends.com
- Free O2 Sim card. For a £30 top up the Au Pair will get an additional 200 minutes of free overseas calls.
- Excursions and introductions to other Au Pairs.
- International Friends – £10 discount on the published price of trips and tours.
- International Students’ House in London – Half price membership for Au Pairs. Ideal accommodation when visiting London.
- Discounts on entry tickets to UK attractions and theme parks through Merlin Entertainments Group.
- OCN accredited On Line Au Pair courses.
- Discounts on Pediatric First Aid courses through Safe and Sound.
- Support and advice throughout Au Pair stay from a professional agency.

The BAPAA Au Pair Programme

The BAPAA Guidelines for Au Pairs and Host Families participating in the BAPAA Au Pair Programme in Britain are listed below:
Nature of the Programme: The Au Pair programme is a cultural exchange programme. Au Pairs must be welcomed as a member of the family.
Age: Traditionally, an Au Pair is aged 17 – 27, however an Au Pair without visa requirements (from EU) can be older.
Hours on duty: Au Pairs can be on duty for 25 – 35 hours per week if they are from an EU country. This is limited to 25 hours per week and 2 evenings per week if the Au Pair is from Bulgaria or Romania. These hours can be spread out over 5 days per week. Longer hours are usually referred to as ‘Au Pair Plus’. Many Au Pair agencies also offer ‘Mother’s help’ positions; this is not part of the traditional cultural exchange programme, as it usually involves longer hours and schedules can conflict with language classes.
Pocket Money: Pocket money must be minimum £70 per week for 25 hours, regardless of whether the minimum hours are worked. Many agencies recommend slightly higher pocket money. For 30 hours the minimum is £85.
Babysitting: Two evenings babysitting per week are included as part of the programme. Additional pocket money should be paid for any additional evenings.
Leisure time: The Au Pair’s schedule must provide sufficient time to attend language school, and the Au Pair shall receive two free days each week and should be offered one full weekend off per month.
Holidays: As from September 2010, BAPAA recommends 28 days holiday per 12 month period, including Public Holidays. Pocket money will be paid during this time. For further guidelines click here.
To calculate the holiday entitlement for less than a year, or for someone helping less than 5 days a week, click here.
The Au Pair should not be forced to take holiday to coincide with the family holiday. Holidays should be mutually agreed between Host Family and Au Pair.
UK Public Holidays: These are included in the recommended holiday and Au Pairs can either be given the day off or have a day off in lieu as part of their holiday allowance.
Light Housework: A list of suggested light housework tasks can be found below these guidelines.
Childcare: An Au Pair is not permitted to have continuous sole charge of children under the age of two.
Room and board: The Au Pair receives full room and board from the family throughout the stay. The Au Pair must have her own private room with a window and not be required to share with children, and she should be given facilities to study.
Travelling Costs: The Au Pair is required to pay their own travelling cost to and from the UK, unless the family chooses to fund this.
Insurance: EU Au Pairs visiting the UK do not need additional health insurance as they are entitled to use the National Health Service. The Au Pair may also wish to take out additional travel insurance to cover loss of belongings, repatriation in case of accident, death etc.
Language School and Costs: Au Pairs must be given enough time to attend language school. There are many courses in the UK for EU members, which are more affordable due to government funding. These are usually ESOL classes. If an Au Pair chooses to go to a private school, they must bear their own cost, unless the family offers to fund this.
Written Offer: Each agency shall ensure that the Au Pair receives a written offer from the family covering pocket money, holidays and what help would be expected.
The Host Family: Each agency shall ensure that the family is suitable to host an Au Pair and understands the nature of the Au Pair programme, and that the Au Pair is there to help the family and is not in charge of the house.
List of housework tasks accepted as light housework:
- Washing dishes, including loading and unloading dishwasher
- Preparing simple meals for children
- Keeping kitchen tidy and clean, including sweeping and mopping floors
- Loading and unloading laundry into washing machine
- Ironing for children
- Putting washed clothes away
- Vacuuming
- Dusting
- Making and changing children’s beds
- Cleaning children’s bathroom
- Everything to do with keeping their own room/bathroom clean and tidy
- Light shopping (not the entire household shopping)
- Walking and feeding pets
- Emptying bins
List of tasks considered unsuitable for an Au Pair – Please remember, it is a cultural exchange programme, giving a young person the opportunity to learn about British culture and improve language skills through interaction with children.
- Gardening
- Window cleaning
- Spring cleaning
- Cleaning the oven, other than simple wiping out
- Washing carpets
- Washing the car
- Weekly shopping
- Pet training
- Clearing up after untrained pets
- Making parents bed*
- Ironing for parents*
- Cleaning parents’ en-suite bathroom*
- Polishing silver and brassware*
- Cooking the family meal, unless the au pair enjoys cooking and has chosen to do this for the family
*These duties can be included where there is less childcare and the children are out of the house for most of the day, if this is agreed in advance.
Au Pairs should not be required to do housework such as ironing, when looking after children of primary school age or toddlers, due to safety reasons.
